Where the Green Grass Grows…

There’s a Tim McGraw Song, Where the Green Grass Grows, I like to listen to from time to time.  It speaks to a theme familiar in American life since the industrial revolution:

Rural vs. Urban

Homogeneous vs. Diverse

Conservative vs. Liberal

Slow vs. Fast

Safe vs. Dangerous

Grass vs. Concrete

Dull vs. Exciting

Backward vs. Cultured

Open Space vs. Crowded

Country vs. City

Tim wants to live where the green grass grows, watch his corn pop up in rows, and plant his dreams where the peaceful river flows.  Hell, I want that too.  Sounds good.  Sign me up.  But Tim goes on to tell us that he’s from “a map dot, a stop sign on the black top”.  He laments that “there’s concrete growin’ in the city park”, that he doesn’t know who his neighbors are, and that there’s “bars on the corner”.  Well, actually our neighborhood park is pretty spectacular.  I know my neighbors and count them among my closest friends.  And  there aren’t any bars on the corner of our neighborhood, but there is a nice little Italian grocery.  Tim’s song speaks to me on the days I have to take to the freeway and I become a speck on the concrete beast winding its way throughout Los Angeles.   Even after 13 years in Pasadena, I still feel a bit claustrophobic by the relatively close spacing of the houses   When I go outside to  garden I  dream being greeted with silence rather than the sound of leaf blowers, wind chimes, and the dull roar of the nearest freeway.

And then there are the days when the city seems to me to encompass everything wonderful in the world.    Our neighborhood here has shown me just how much I value a home where I can walk to the library, post office, shopping,  farmer’s market, and parks.  I am less than a one mile walk to train station from which I can, quite literally, use as my jumping off point to the entire world.  And it is almost-sitcom perfect, how our tiny street is now home to six boys age four and under.  I smile every time I hear our neighbor’s four year old son shout from his open window across the street, “Thomas!!!” and the top of his lungs.

Dammit, I want both…the city and the country.  Why do we have to choose?

As I drove over the Los Angeles river this week and noticed the trees growing up in a soft-bottomed stretch, I realized that the choice between urban and rural is a false choice.  The answer to this “choice” has been given to us as the monstrosity that is suburbia, but this is not the way things have to be.  Why can’t rivers and creeks flow though the city?   Why can’t Pasadena be a city of roses and of mini-farms?  Why the hell can’t city gardeners put down their leaf blowers and pick up a rake? I want the best of both worlds and if modern society doesn’t offer it to me than I suppose we shall just have to go about creating it ourselves?  Want to join me?

Free Range Baby

4 Responses to “Where the Green Grass Grows…”

  1. Ben Wideman Says:

    Yes! I want to stand up and give you a hearty AMEN! Preach it!

  2. Ann Erdman Says:

    That’s part of what I love about Pasadena: big-city amenities in a small-town atmosphere.

  3. Cafe Pasadena Says:

    Life is a series of decisions. Choices, choices…

  4. papa dave Says:

    Where the green grass grows, While that may fit many the places where we have lived , we sometimes had not much of a choice with my railroad job, Green Places and good places to live. Palestine TX, Indianapolis, IN, Columbus, NE Pittsburg, KS Redlands, CA. Not so green, Green river WY ( mom loved that house) Ridgecrest/Trona CA, all when you guys were growing up.

    Before Sara and Tony, Superior WI, 3 for the 2 weeks of summer in July, Cleveland OH, Youngstown OH, Fond du Lac WI a great small town on a lake. Glenwood, MN an other great town on a lake and it had 1 month of summer. New Jersey?? well it is the garden state and its also near NYC. Huron SD small and of the beaten path.

    As Erma Bombeck once said the grass is greener over the septic tank. You have much to value in Pasadena and there is somthing said about the other places in the country. If Mom and I had to do it over again we would not have moved you all around and tried to stay in one place. That may not have let you be who you are now but it may have been better for you and tony and Sara. Who knows how it would have turned out. I just know that you turned out great.